If all the words could say it

If all the words could say it, there are a lot of things that have been left quite unsaid. Things that should have been said, but time was not on our side. I think it is best that way. If you have to do it all over again, you would let that someone be there , be here right now, because you need them.
You need the way they made you laugh, you need the way they had a good perspective towards life, you need them for who they were to you. We all want to look forward to a brighter future, and death just like birth, has to come to pass. I know through the film of tears telling someone to get over it and move on, is easier said than done. Getting them through this hurting time is what counts.
My encouragement is no matter how much you miss them, you know they are right there with you. How come you still choose to cook that chicken, just the way mama liked it, even though Mama went to heaven, half a decade ago? How come you wouldnt let that boy just mistreat because you know Daddy never would have let it happen? Because you and I know they gave their best in sharing their lives with us, that is how you look at the sky and smile, and be sure in your heart, they looking down on you, you just know they are.
And they would like you to get that broken heart mended as soon as you can, not by forgetting them but by knowing they are here everystep of the way. It wont be by your might, but by His Grace!

And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me 2nd Corinthians12:9